The few media which keep our friends live in daily activities. Carrying them with memories in the previously we had. Indeed we keep ourselves in touch with all of the social members along with maintaining a social network too. In Addition to this included news,photos,videos as well as many events or phenomena sharing to the friends is the main motive of social media. All sorts of social but virtual connections and bonding are called Social Media. To be frank the media turned to be an addiction we feel at present.
Smaller Private World :
The immature virtual connections help make a smaller world. Hence,we find a person without a friend cause: he/she engaged herself/himself into a network where another one connected from an unseen room. We don't have the ability to know him/her correctly. The people avoid meeting them on the ground or satisfied to be a friend via verbal distant communication. In this sophisticated situation,he/she entered into his/ her own world of beliefs,over freedom,own responsibilities,loneliness,self supporting,no physical connection usually make him/her a man/woman of a smaller private world which has no diversity
Distrusted:
We cannot trust the person if someone betrayed me instead of assisting. Here is the best possibility of such feelings due to a similar occurrence. As like facebook,whats app,viber or any kinds of social media deceit him/ her during emotional and economical challenges what they had to face. We several times used to hear that a wedding ceremony arranged via facebook then to wait mistrust one which we didn’t wish.
Case study
Nasir is a national cricket player of Bangladesh recently married to a woman named Tamima without knowing her marital status.We informed news from electronic and print media that she has a child of 8(eight) years
old Actually she was married around 10 years ago,now the girl claimed as a betrayer stated by her real husband Rakib. Furthermore, we heard that they both were introduced via facebook. consequently, Nasir didn’t know her family status along with marital too. Which made a gap of actual romantic relation. Nasir is betrayed by Tamima . Now they both become separated from each other. Finally Nasir lost his bright career and Tamima went back to her former husband with the child. Hence, the so-called social media Facebook is responsible for all sorts of unhappy relations like Nasir and Tamima.
Lesser Emotion:
Man has emotion to be matured as a social member.
To be actual,such so called social media help to be fake emotional and fake promising. Which make's inhumanist. South asian people have emotion,here after not like westerners. But a matter of grief that we are going to lose emotion due to misuse of social media.This is so negative for us to do such deeds. The man without emotion is the man out of feelings. We may call it a machine full of machinery parts without human culture.
Time Waste:
We didn’t get relief from the work. The work and the man act as vice versa sometimes we involve ourselves in the work sometimes work involves us. Work must not go on forward with the help of man in the name of worker. If we spend time on social media for almost a few hours a day then the time will be wasted.
Some usually spend a day-long period there. The rest of the users use the media a few minutes from every hour but not continuously. We use the media for unnecessary purposes. The spending time will be effective if we can use it for our profession otherwise our provided time will be turned to ashes. Truly speaking frequently upload photos,status updates regarding every happenings like sleeping,toileting,reading are not normal but diseases. We should recover the provided time. Social media is not for every playing that causes only wasting time.
Personality disorder:
A strong personality can bring everything that urgent for us. If one doesn’t have personality then has no color. Hence color refers to the entity which differs one from others at ease. We usually share every event of daily life and videos which will make us have personality disorder. We haven’t been personal when each event became public whether we publish all facts happening daily. We have nothing to be private. So,our personality is hampered.
A person of less personality doesn't get honoured,because they don’t know how to honour other people too. The overuse of social media leads to all the situations mentioned above.
Damaged Creativity:
We have to create something during our lifetime. As like peasants produce food items,labour produce products, scientists discover scientific theories that are useful for the world. But it will take time to be a producer that may be manual or mental. We cannot create something if we used to spend time only on social media. Where we need a long time to make new thoughts. There is nothing to do except communicate; gradually we are going to lose our creativity.
Mental decadence:
We Generally think that everybody has mental strength. As usual, we use such strength to involve ourselves in many,many works. It’s preferable to know that our mental ability is able to control the whole body. If mentally be engaged in a single track i.e facebook,twitter or any other social media then one couldn't work in another social work. Spending time in the virtual world couldn't be helpful for mental health.
Virtual relation,virtual love and virtual social network lead to mentally disordered.
All sorts of communication. hampered mental health as well as causes mental decadence.
So, in a word the social media is not wholly discardable, we usually use the tools that we want to do,we have to excavate what is our focal point. The impact of social media depends on how we may use it. Those are nothing but a tool. This is because we will make it positive. There is nothing to blame whether users became purposeful even closely related to the goal we set before.
Alamgir sujan
Researcher
University of Dhaka
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